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November 17

JUST FOR TODAY-COPY AND PASTE FROM INTERNET

Just for today I will try to live through this day only and not tackle my whole life problem at once. I can do something for twelve hours that would appall me if I had to keep it up for a lifetime.

Just for today I will be happy. This assumes to be true what Abraham Lincoln said, that "Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be."

Just for today I will adjust myself to what is, and not try to adjust everything to my own desires. I will take my "luck" as it comes.

Just for today I will try to strengthen my mind. I will study. I will learn something useful. I will not be a mental loafer. I will read something that requires effort, thought and concentration.

Just for today I will exercise my soul in three ways. I will do somebody a good turn and not get found out: If anybody knows of it, it will not count. I will do at least two things I don't want to do-just for exercise. I will not show anyone that my feelings are hurt: they may be hurt, but today I will not show it.

Just for today I will be agreeable. I will look as well as I can, dress becomingly, talk low, act courteously, criticize not one bit, and try not to improve or regulate anybody but myself.

Just for today I will have a program, I may not follow it exactly, but I will have it. I will save myself from two pests: hurry and indecision.

Just for today I will have a quiet half hour all by myself and relax. During this half hour, sometime, I will try to get a better perspective of my life.

Just for today I will be unafraid. Especially I will not be afraid to enjoy what is beautiful, and to believe that as I give to the world, so the world will give to me.

November 15

Pirate Radio

晚上又邀了帮朋友来吃饭,人多了是有人多的好处,随便就可以拼上一桌菜。
做饭有时会腻,做的多了,或者是给很多人做都会腻住。但,一个人也是吃,一群人也是吃,所以,与其厌烦还不如发掘一下其中的快乐。这心理过程就好象是在面对生活,有时无力反抗就要想办法去享受。
冬令时久了就会让人恶心,或者从一开始就是。尤其是如果你选择在早午饭可以一起吃的时间起床,那么,一天你就只有三个小时左右的时间感受一下阳光,如果不幸地赶赶上那三个小时在下雨的话,那就可想而知了。
聚齐一屋子人还有个好处就是,不管外面多早天黑,你可以吃着喝着,聊着天,听着音乐,偶尔看看表,然后不知不觉地就到了该睡觉的时间。
很久没看电影,昨晚插着环绕音箱又看了遍角斗士,今天又看了部新片,The Boat That Rocked (海盗电台),看完了还特意发消息推荐给了alcuin和老梁,觉得喜欢,或者喜欢过摇滚的人都应该可以接受,值得推荐。
关于电台音乐,现在想来其实真正离不开的不仅仅是音乐。。。
没有谁可以过着没有音乐的生活,但也很想知道如果生活没有音乐又会是怎样,人是很容易找到替代物的,如果不是音乐,会不会有什么更好的。
 
November 14

你喜欢我一下会死吗?(转载左岸读书)

有那么一些人,我们擦肩了来不及遇见,遇见了来不及相识,相识了来不及熟悉,熟悉了却还是要说再见。你说你爱她,她说她爱他,爱情的矛盾,又有谁能解。
从前,有一只黑色的小猫叫阿狸,
他把自己夹在晾衣服绳上,想把耳朵拉长,
据说是因为他爱上了那只兔子;

但是,那只兔子并不爱他,
兔子喝N加仑的咖啡,
听摇滚high歌,几天几夜的不睡觉,
——据说是因为他爱上了那只熊猫;

但是,熊猫一点也不Care他,
熊猫用5彩的油彩涂在身上,
——据说他爱上了5彩的鹦鹉;

但是,鹦鹉觉得熊猫一点没品位鹦鹉学游泳,争取每天憋气能多一分钟;
——据说鹦鹉爱上了小鱼。

但是,小鱼觉得鹦鹉特别trouble,小鱼整天带着头套,吹泡泡。
——很明显,他爱上了阿狸;

阿狸因为挂的时间太长,挂了……
所以嘞,后面的每一段爱情故事就这样循环的悲伤下去……

有那么一些人我们擦肩了来不及相遇;
遇见了来不及相识;
相识了来不及熟悉;
熟悉了却还是要说再见;
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November 01

MY WAY, Frank Sinatra

最近爱上了首老歌,每天有空的话都会听上那么一两遍,My Way, Frank Sinatra,我的博客也许注定了就是小众的,但有时也好在这里,可以来分享这样的老歌却也不至于让他流行,然后烂掉,再被人彻底遗忘。歌很好听,让我联想到自己老到走不动路的那一天,再听这首歌会多些什么感慨。
最近在考虑一个问题:是否自己还依然年轻?不知道你们都有什么答案。
忘了是哪一天早起,突然有了这样的疑问,看着镜子里的自己,突然意识到,不知道是什么时候开始,每一天像这样醒来都不得不要去刮掉这一夜长出来的胡子才能出门,也许真的是这样不知不觉地老了,但,心里却又有不甘,因为还有那么多应该是在年轻的时候去做的事情都还没做。不希望只是因为老了,或者,用老了来做借口,然后放弃那些本就应该去做的事情。也许,有人就是可以就这样一直做年轻人做的事情,即使是在慢慢的变老,即使是有一天蓄长胡须。
和童大师最近在网上聊过这样类似的问题,最后尴尬的发现其实没有什么结论,或者,结论根本就是,尴尬,一段尴尬的年龄。的确,现在我们没有任何可以拿来挥霍的资本,不再是青春,也更不是口袋里的现金,可能,还有些积蓄的爱可以拿来挥霍,但终又发现身边没有那么一个合适的人。有些人也许错过了真的就是错过了,没有任何必要去说是因为还没有真正遇到。
October 09

A Commercial for the New Chapter...pushing on...

贴几张照片吧,虽然这里也的确没多少观众,但是本着尊重读者和观众的态度,我还是决定坚持更新下去。现在越来越不喜欢space了,条条框框太多,你说为什么留言还要有msn帐号,这到底是实名制还是捆绑销售,弄得大家原本就不高的留言兴致越来越小,即使留言还要反复斟酌一下语句,要是可以自由自在地做马甲就好了,我保证这里肯定很多人留言,至少留言数量可以翻一番。哎...
到这儿有一周多了,这两天没事会一个人出去走走转转,住的地方很方便,离学校和市中心走路都在15分钟左右。这里什么都好,就是比想象中的冷,尤其是当你心里又知道还有那么些朋友整天可以吹着海风晒着太阳,你会觉得更冷。不过,我决定等过些日子,买双好的跑鞋,没事去跑跑步,好好的调理一下自己的身体状态,也借机会锻炼一下自己的抗寒能力。话不多说,看图片还有一则广告:
A Commercial for the New Chapter:
I just had a Brand New Page, a blank and big page to write, but right now I haven't started yet, I'm still holding the pen on my hand wondering all the stories in the last chapters and about to know how do I write this new chapter, whether do I write it in the same style or change it completely with more new characters and with all different ways to twist the story, unpredict the main character, and put someother things you and I will never expect to show, or I should just let the story goes smoothly and peacefully as usual. I'm not sure yet, you will see, but don't put too much of your expectations on it because I don't want disappoint you at the end.
Hopefully, i'd be able to write a readable and lovely new chapter with more audience like it. We will see...
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The Minster,欧洲大陆上最大的两个教堂之一,另一个好像在德国。天气和建筑事实上要比照片中的感觉浓烈得多,尤其是当你远远地站在古老街道的一角远望这座高大建筑是,你会自然而然地怀着很期待的心情不由自主地加快脚步,我相信那种感觉跟信仰和不同的文化都没有任何干系,只是人类最自然的本能与好奇。当然,我相信这也是这座充满了宗教气息的建筑的根本用意之一。(组图)
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
The CityWall and the Bars,我住的地方离一个叫Walmgate的城楼很近,据说这个城楼也是至今保存最完整的一座,城市很小,城墙也很小,断断续续地被纵向地流过城市的两条河分割开,走在上面感觉会很好,尤其是有阳光的好天气。城墙没有具体的关闭时间,只有告诉你在日落后会相继关闭,当然每天都会有人来清场。
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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